Read Doug Wilson's "The Marks of a Pharisee."
We do not widen our phylacteries; we have floppy Bibles with ribbonsin them. We do not offer lengthy prayers in the synagogues; we do in the churches. We do not look at the woman caught in adultery with contempt; we look at the immodestly-dressed college girl with contempt. And in a basic display of a censorious and religious bookkeeping system, our hearts (and sometimes our mouths) are full of phrases that rhyme with "that’s not fair!"
May God deliver us.